Originally Posted by artisingh

Only a peaceful, open to learning, mind can lead to an individual's growth. To stay on the path of progress and not be driven by the ideal of perfection, an inquiry into the self is vital. Self inquiry is one of the most important tools in determining the best way forward in life. I recently read an article on how perfectionism effects an individual's growth and thought that you would be interested in reading it. You can read the article at One World Academy - Does perfection hinder growth?

I had a chance to read the article and it pretty much reflected my own thoughts about the question. I started out as a perfectionist; it was my way or the highway, but, I found this self defeating, for one, no one approved of my self appointed role as boss over them and did not appreciate my attitude. As a result I was let go from jobs and then my attitude spilled into my personal life. No one wants to be told every step what to do and how to do it or be shown the door. I realized in my quest to perfect myself, I alienated everyone else. When one is on a perfection quest, one closes their minds to change, suggestions from others and of course realizing and accepting we're, in fact, flawed. That's a concept that isn't easily accepted and we just won't listen to anyone telling US we're not perfect. I changed my perfectionist behavior by opening myself to allow myself to be wrong, flawed and imperfect. A hard road but one that humbled me and allowed me to grow as a person.